Choosing a shoe is not my stong suit

Here is the dress I'm planning to wear for the weekend, I THINK (I guess making clothing decisions isn't my strong suit) Some shoe options I came home with. Not sure what I was thinking with 2 and 4, they don't match and were vetoed ASAP

Here's 4, a grey shoe that has quite the heal, I'm at least 5'10" here, but please remember my hubby is 6'6" I LOVE THAT

and 1, the lighter color just stands out to me, does it stand out too much?? I've not really been a fan of the t-strap either and I don't think I'm starting to become one now....

Thoughts?